In Loving Memory.....
(Deputy Sorensen LOVED his job)So it is about time I get back to the blog. I have put this off long enough and have to post it so I can be done and move on (until the next breakdown)!
On August 5, 2009 I lost my only sibling in a tragic car accident. He lived long enough for us to say goodbye. He left behind the "love of his life" and his two precious children, his mother, his nieces who adored him and his nephew that will miss him, a brother-in-law that was more than a brother but a BEST FRIEND and a sad sister that has been shook to the core by this!
It is Phil's birthday today.....he was to be 28.
Philip Andrew Sorensen.....some of the best and worst pics to follow:
Philip always had a SMILE!
He loved Michelle.
Loved his kids (and being goofy!)
He loved his Dad(Andy)..also died, Sept 14, 1999, Mom(Barbara), Sister (Jennie-me)
Christmas 1984
To all those who knew Phil or met him just once, thanks for being his friend. He touched many lives and especially mine. We had a bond that will not be broken by death. We will see each other again.
He was a jokester and lovable person, although you didn't want to be around when he was in a bad mood. He always tried to have a smile and if he could help in any situation he would.
When I think of Philip it will be fond memories. Thanks to everyone who called, e-mailed, sent cards, came to the viewings, came to the funeral, participated in the funeral, to my sister-in-law who is a ROCK, to my mom, to my Grandma Toomer who stayed by his side as they loaded in the life flight, to my Uncle John who was there also, to my Aunt Karla who could be there as a fireman on the scene of the accident, to Mr. Price who called 911, to all the emergency workers and hospitals that saved by darling neice, to my mother-in-law who met us at the hospital to take my kids at 3 a.m., to my Mom AGAIN for being there for me, to all the many, many friends and acquaintences of both Phil and I...Thank you. I love you all and Phil I love you with all my HEART. (I will play 10 fruits on you when I get to Heaven so you better be thinkin' of a list of fruits ....make it 20 fruits for leavin' us early!)
This post was so touching. It brought tears to my eyes. Love you Jenni!
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ReplyDeleteThank you for this post. It makes me want to appreciate everyday we have together in this life but also look forward to the next. You are a wonderful example to us all. Thank you!
Anita
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Your post was beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your blog on FB. I never would have found it otherwise to read this great tribute. I also remembered Philip's birthday yesterday. I wish I could have been at the funeral and showed my support of all of you. Please know that you and your mother are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteJennie, It's a beautiful thing to see someone love their family so much. We can all see how very much your brother meant to you. I am sorry for your sorrow and broken hearts. I have no experience in this, but I know you'll make it through. We love you. -Holly Roberts
ReplyDeleteYou know I love you Jenn. I think of you everyday and pray for you as often as I think of it. And Michelle, your mom, Jared... all those he left behind to face this trial. I'm glad you liked my post. Reading your comment brought tears to my eyes.
ReplyDeleteLove you.
C
Jennie, awesome post thanks for sharing with us. I know I probably couldn't be that strong. We really wanted to be to the viewing but Mike got called into work. Some of the guys Mike worked with that went through the academy with Phil said he was an awesome person. Please call me if you need anything.
ReplyDeleteYou put it just right and brought me to tears. I know you are not alone and you and your family are still in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteThanks Jennie. Loved the post. Kirina's talk was so sweet in Primary. Strong testimonies are THE only thing that get's one through something like this and yours is rock hard.
ReplyDeleteJennie, What a lovely tribute to your brother. It must be so hard. You are such a sweet, lovely person. I think that he must be a lot like you, which makes him a pretty great guy. You and Jared are both such good friends to Kessee and Angela. I know how much they love both of you and I really appreciate how sweet you have been to them and their kids. I hope time will make things easier, but I know that we never forget. And that is a good thing.
ReplyDelete---Marilyn (Angela's Mom)
We love you!!
ReplyDeleteJennie - I loved the post about your brother. I find that it does help to just write things out to get what is on your mind in the open and help heal your heart. I liked seeing the pictures of him! Loved the younger pictures of you too! ;) Hope you are doing well!
ReplyDeleteWe are so sad to hear about your brother. Your memories will help everyone remember him such a touching post. love ou guys
ReplyDeleteWow, Jennie. I am proud of you for posting this. I know that it is still hard. I know I only met Phil that one time at the reunion, but he was so full of life. He was fun, funny, and just seemed so happy. I'm so sorry this has happened, but I know that you are the one who can handle the situation. I'm thankful you have the faith you do. Let's practice, so that we can actually win the volleyball game next time.:)
ReplyDeleteOh Jennie, I'm so sorry! I still have chills going down my body I feel so bad. This post was a great tribute. I send my deepest sympathies.
ReplyDeleteJennie, I am so sorry about the loss of your brother. Did he live in Montpelier area? We are from Montpelier & Paris. I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. Thanks for the post that reminds us all to appreciate our loved ones more!
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